When you are in a position of authority, this position will put you in a situation to make decisions which may make you uncomfortable or which others may not like. Your knowledge and experience is one of the reasons you are assigned to your position, to make tough decisions and to solve problems.Â
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This responsibility may, and often will, create uncomfortable feelings for you and sometimes creates a wall or distance between you and the people with whom you interact. Be proactive, seek out the truth, be impartial, stay calm, do the work to get all the facts, gather wisdom from experts and write down your evidence. With all the information, finalize your thoughts, be fair, see the problem from all sides, be firm, decisive then make a well thought out decision. If you find yourself facing a request for more information or reconsideration, my recommendation is to be attentive, listen patiently, make eye contact, let them know you care, and talk briefly with kindness and firmness. When the situation warrants it add a little sense of humor which can ease the other party and help to remove hard-feelings, eliminate or at least reduce the chance for further relationship problems. Once you have established your position and remained consistent in your reasons, communicate with kindness and fairness. By explaining and holding your position you will gain respect and a strong reputation for fairness. Just remember the truth is – you are doing your job, impartially, fairly and responsibly.
International Traditional Karate Association-ITKA Karate